Small Tingting, who just turned 5 years old, suffering from "convulsions" disease has been two years, a very long time can not find the cause.One day, doctors saw the incidence scenario: only the child's head back, the whole body showed arcuate angle, the set of rigid limbs, muscle, fingers tremble slightly ... ... but the child's consciousness, the eyes also normal.Her mother said: "Well, Well, take you to buy apple." At this point, the child's limbs gradually relaxed, and finally pulled up the hand of mother went to buy food.Under this situation, doctors may think that the children Tingting hysteria.
Another 5-year-old girl, named Lily, her 3-year-old former bright, able to speak and sing the whole family loved her very much.But over the past two years she has become a "dumb", she hardly said a word, but also as playing like a gesture to deaf.Go to hospital for treatment, doctors found that Lily has no facial features deaf or hard of hearing, nor lips, tongue, soft palate and vocal cord anomalies.Psychological practitioners to determine the intellectual Lily completely within normal range, consider the "Aphasia" is a manifestation of hysteria.
Hysteria in children more common in girls.In addition to the above generalized convulsions with aphasia, the others will be hearing loss, impermanence browser laugh, paralysis, and dyspnea, hiccups, loss of appetite loss and voiding dysfunction, such as performance, however, suggest that patients are vulnerable to impact.
Hysteria in children is mainly caused by an adverse stimulus, parents of children over-indulgent, or indifferent to punishment should not be at every turn.More children should not blindly obey the requirements, limiting their contact with other children to play and to avoid damage to the child's psychological balance, the impact of physical and mental health of children.
Hysteria in children can be treated, as long as looking for the cause, to use correct and effective soon.
Hysteria in children caused by hysteria or similar performance has many reasons, many of them have the fault of the parents:
Toys in a store counter, we can often see such a scenario: a child to the parents to buy a particular toy, the parents refused, the children throw a tantrum on the big, noisy than, or even lying on the ground roll.Fear of loss of face to meet the needs of the parents rushed the child's desire to make children stop quarreling toss.The resulting children are, as long as my temper in front of a row, parents will meet my wishes.Thus, whenever there is a new desire to have children, parents do not agree, the child is big temper, and finally had to succumb to the parents.As time goes by, more and more insatiable children, temper is also growing, more people have become not more headstrong, rude, anxious parents often feel confused: We parents are very gentle temperament, the children how could this be?
Yes, this child is not born a pair of big temper, but we make parents, children slowly develop such a temper.Behaviorist psychology pointed out that children's behavior, whether good or bad, once by the adult praise or reward expensive, which makes the act has been strengthened, after it encountered a similar scenario, this behavior can easily occur again.When the children first in order to achieve their own aspirations, as a means to temper the threat of parents, children make their parents worry about bad voice crying, or afraid of losing face in public places, go hug a child to meet the child's wish, which makes children temper this behavior has been strengthened, namely, the children know how he can throw a tantrum to get their parents hug or want.One after another in order to achieve the aspirations of the children began to lose his temper again and again, and finally into a temper love children.
If your children have learned or are in the process to take a look at technology in order to temper you, do not go to strengthen his behavior, then your best response is to ignore him, and his speech does not even look at him do not look, until the child stopped crying so far.In this way, children will understand that tantrums will not give rise to both parents care, but also can not achieve their aspirations.Repeat several times as long as the child will give up to blackmail in order to temper the bad habits of adults.
