Children were either too naughty, or too quietly, or suddenly become easier to lose my temper, Fall in love with the "vexatious."Have been familiar with the child all of a sudden turned into a unknown world, so that tight frown father mother, I do not know why their baby in the end?Think what?What?
In fact, as we go by car travel, there will always face a different landscape, at the children's growth path, they will inevitably want to enter because of physical or psychological development resulting from the different stages.
1, baby perpetual motion machine
Active, energetic, almost no momentlive, for preschool children, this is the growth imperative.
Since children need to explore and understand the world around, but also need to learn how to be able to own the various parts of the body "with ease."This active peak usually appears at the age of 2 to 3 years old.Some children will show a surplus of extra energy.In general, as children mature nervous system, they will not be so gradually the irritability.Usually 6-year-old child than 4-year-old is more able to "sit stand" and wait until 8 years old, their performance will be much better.
Assist him: good behavior management is the key.You need a strong effort for the children to find vent exports.Such as a day take the time to take him to the playground to play, or to a short weekend trip.At the same time, take him to avoid a crowded noisy place, so as not to give children more stimulation.If you want to go with children who need time to maintain a quiet place (such as cinemas and libraries), to remain there for as short as possible time.To let children develop good habits of work and rest, especially to a fixed time to get up and go to bed.1 Finally, as a parent, you must be accustomed to children this kind of "active."
Warning: if the child was not particularly quiet, easy to impulse, and it is very difficult to concentrate, then you may need to consult a doctor.Because these may signal the child has some kind of inherent diseases.
2, a small rebel
From the first child for you to say "no" to start, you should pay attention to: he may inadvertently have you had to grow into a new era on the road to an antagonistic view.They began to find that they can control their own behavior, so people were very reluctant to interfere in their own again.
Such children are usually antagonistic mental At the culmination of 3 years of age.This time, their language began to appear more and more "me" or "I want to ... ..." and always want to take the initiative.Especially in the face will probably change some things on the daily lives of children, (such as kindergarten), you must be ready to meet the objections and challenges to the psychological preparation, "look" of your baby using various, sometimes is absolutely incorrect to solve the problem himself.
Assist him: at any possible circumstances for your children "of our own business" opportunities.Such as what to wear them the next morning, breakfastor fried rice ... ... the performance of co-operation when the children, you must praise him.At the same time, for what is right to do and how to make inappropriate, you have to draw clear boundaries.
If the performance of a very stubborn child, you should assist him to understand and express their emotions, perhaps because he is a feeling of being forced or suffered a setback only become so stubborn.Sometimes, too stubborn to children you also need to give him a small punishment, criticism, or deprive him of a right (such as the abolition of the afternoon ice cream) are a good solution.
Warning: If your child has always been very cooperative, but suddenly became disobedient and aggressive, then he must be the mood of what's wrong.May be what has upset him: the home such as a change occurs, or at kindergarten are experiencing any problems.Once the issue is resolved, everything will be calm.There are some cases required to pay special attention to you and think of ways to understand their children the reasons behind these acts.These circumstances include: children are not only for you, but also including the nanny and other adults, including all demonstrated antagonistic; trouble at kindergarten; will suddenly big temper and so on.
