Your child will keep his old coat, roll things like baby tightly in his arms right?Once you take away from the arms of children of these things, he (she) will be irritability, crying over, even in bed unable to sleep also?In that case, you have to guard against the
Unable to get rid of the old coating
5-year-old Hill & Knowlton, he never left the infant age of the old package that used to be, although in his bedroom closethave his girlfriend and mother had sent all kinds of towel, paste-up folder to be and small blankets, parents are also doing "carrot" of himself, it is necessary to put that dirty, Hill & Knowlton packet about to be broken, Hill & Knowlton have been almost desperate-type opposition.
Over the past few years, regardless of Hill & Knowlton is to there grandparents, uncle or aunt to the home, or even traveling abroad to follow their parents, the old coating has been the important things first, would be moved to it tightly in his arms, and even Bite the mouth to quiet down.If he was not found with packets will irritability, crying over, even in bed unable to sleep also.Mother's feeling is: "This is some kids nervous, difficult to bring." Not long ago, to talk about her on the grounds of health, Hill & Knowlton packets will be dumped into the refuse collection points, and the results of Hill & Knowlton cried a whole day, not into.
Studying in the United States has blamed his wife's father has hurt the hearts of children, said: "Many American families have a child fetish child addicted, and some small bedding have a hold on to primary school. That normal children do, it will be of great to letting nature take its course. Since the quilt with the children feel at ease, let him take it. "
Hill & Knowlton mother may still feel uncomfortable - in addition to being outside of that package, Hill & Knowlton did not show any other so attached to people and events.He seems very difficult to adapt to the new environment, when they should retreat, with the total package was like to hide in a corner talking to himself.Such children, a few years, how the fish into the water as if the financial people to groups?
Is the root cause of the lack of a sense of security
Hill & Knowlton is not the individual examples, Hill & Knowlton in the mother's concern is not young parents in particular.Indeed, the children's "fetishism" - a far from certain as things used to accompany on the anxious behavior, although there is light there is heavy, but probably because of the lack of security caused.Before the symptoms of child-oriented parent-child relationship in a very small proportion of China, but in recent years as the white-collar Noriko increasingly westernized model, increased emphasis on early childhood education in the proportion of life to the neglect of the enjoyment of interactive family, the " Fetishism pain "more and more children.After all, this is a mild autism performance, easy to cultivate a sensitive back, depression, personality characteristics of the vulnerability.Prone to these children in --
Comfortable housing conditions, since the 1-year-old began a separate children's bedroom of the family to fall asleep; busy parents, the children from the serious full-time nanny with first-hand about the family; although it seems that focus on children's early development, but think that life with childrenplay is "a waste of time and the family; children and animation accompanied by the growth of our King, the long-term association with the TV family ... ...
How to eliminate the child's "addiction fetish"
Since the children of "Fetishism addiction" is caused by the lack of a sense of security, then gradually get rid of child care to prevent or "addiction fetish", but also enhance the child's sense of security from the start.You can try:
A hug their children more than in peacetime, more than his shooting hand on the back and head, to relieve their "skin hunger."Ask the attention of film is not embraced and rewarded the children do not paint a good painting or pop-up when the firstShougang to embrace him again, should embrace the day-to-day, unconditional, even if he does something wrong feel uneasy, but also can embrace him, the latter more in between the two generations to find a silent way of reconciliation.Regular children to embrace this kind of hint: I am on your side; I love you; Do not worry, there is me; failed it does not matter; you are safe ... ... often with their parents embrace children, never will be, or packet teddy bear as his "spiritual belt."
B even if the child alone in a room, but also the work carried out to appease bedtime.All children are instinctive fear of nightmares and dark, so hard to separate the children with their parents is a difficult thing to accept.A lot of sleep before the child is disturbed by the fear of infection with the "fetishism", if the child's parents before going to bed alone with children, singing lullabies or read one or two wonderful fairy tale, the one small bright lights, such as children slept then the left, it is easier to make it like an infant coated object "withdrawal."
C above the clear fetishpacket will be children, small pillow, plush bear, with the towel used to like "addiction," the mother of the child in the purchase of these supplies, to multi-conscious under preparation for several a "carrier migration" so that children can not be something which "special circumstances."If the start packet prepared by under 23, a plush bear family (including flannel Bear Grandpa, grandmother, father, mother, uncle, aunt, small plush bears and his cousin were), let the children choose to use the words, children I am afraid that will be realized: This is a non-living material, rather than those who have feelings.
Aware of these, there is help to help them out with the "fetish" of the closed world, come into contact with the outside world with plenty of sunshine.
